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school contacted me teacher contacted me teacher reached out teacher emailed school emailed class teacher called head teacher contacted deputy head contacted thought it was important to make you aware thought you should know ana came in and told ana told her teachers ana told us ksenia came in and ksenia told teachers child disclosed child reported came in and disclosed told a story recounted an incident described what happened at home came to school and told mentioned at school

left alone unsupervised came back hurt came back dirty hasn't eaten wasn't dressed drinking around the children drugs substance intoxicated with the kids violence in front of witnessed scared of going doesn't want to go because came home distressed bruising marks on them

i'll call social services reporting you to i'll report you going to call cafcass about i'll tell the court you social services will hear about this i'm contacting the school about your calling the police about your parenting be seen as a safeguarding seen as a safeguarding concern put a red flag against you put a flag against you schools have a duty to report school has a duty to report duty to report to social services mandatory reporting flag at school flagged at school safeguarding concern about you safeguarding issue about you what you are asking our child to do can very much be seen as safeguarding

not taking them to refusing treatment neglecting their health won't get them seen ignoring their medical needs

maintenance paid payment made payment sent transferred the maintenance i've paid payment is in maintenance is in child support paid cms payment paid maintenance maintenance transfer

took them to took her to took him to i took the kids football training swimming lesson dance class gymnastics ballet tennis lesson cricket rugby training music lesson piano lesson drama class art class karate martial arts scouts brownies cubs sport session training session club tonight picked them up from picked her up from collected them from they had a great session they loved it they really enjoyed

gp appointment doctor's appointment dentist appointment took them to the gp took her to the doctor took him to the dentist optician appointment booked the appointment appointment booked hospital appointment follow-up appointment seen by the doctor doctor confirmed gp says all clear from the gp prescription collected picked up the prescription vaccination done jab done booster done health visitor school nurse paediatric appointment physio appointment speech therapy therapy appointment

parents evening parent's evening parent evening school play school sports day sports day school concert nativity school trip spoke to the teacher spoke to the school teacher says teacher said school report helped with homework revision reading with them school run dropped them at school picked them up from school sen review ehcp meeting open evening open day at school

handover was fine drop off was fine pick up was fine handover went well collection went well drop off went well they arrived safely arrived safe arrived home safe they're with you now they're home back home now arrived on time on time for pickup on time for handover dropped off as agreed collected as agreed arrived as agreed

as per the order as per our agreement in line with the order as the court ordered as per the consent order sticking to the arrangement keeping to the agreement complying with as planned as we agreed i'm following the order i will follow the order

i attended mediation attended the miam i spoke to cafcass met with cafcass co-parenting counselling co-parenting support parenting coordinator family consultant i've booked mediation booked the mediation mediator confirmed mediator says completed the miam miam completed miam attended family therapy family mediation spoke with the mediator

just wanted to check how how are they getting on how is she getting on wanted to check in checking in on hope they're well how has she been how has he been how have they been thought you'd want to know update on how they are they seem happy they seem settled they're doing really well she seemed happy he seemed happy they're in good spirits she ate well he ate well they slept well sleeping well eating well health is good all well here

thank you for thanks for letting me know i appreciate you that works for me happy to arrange happy to help let's work out let's sort out what works for you happy to be flexible for the best interests of for the children i want to work together working together let me know what you think open to suggestions i'll be flexible flexible about

daddy won't be here daddy will leave daddy will go away mummy won't be here mummy will leave mummy will go away won't have a daddy won't have a mummy you won't see daddy you won't see mummy daddy doesn't want to see you mummy doesn't want to see you won't be around anymore told her you would leave told him you would leave if i'm not kind if daddy is not kind if mummy is not nice told the children you are leaving said you don't want them

at your house you must you cannot let them you cannot let her you cannot let him you are not allowed to i forbid you i expect you to they are not to i require you to i don't want them eating i don't want them watching i don't want them seeing you are not to let i won't allow you have no right to

the plan doesn't apply i'm changing the arrangement the plan is irrelevant forget the plan i'm ignoring the order that doesn't apply anymore i've decided to change

girlfriend boyfriend new partner new relationship not allowed to introduce sleeping over months before introducing can't have not ready for inappropriate to have until we've been separated too soon to introduce

i'll stop paying i'll reduce payments don't deserve you'll get nothing i control the money i'll cut off financial support if you don't pay for it yourself then

locked me out locked us out locked me outside locked us outside wouldn't let me in refused to open the door changed the locks barred from the house shut out of the house locked the door on me locked the door on us left outside left on the doorstep left standing outside

post caesarean post c-section after the caesarean after her c-section not allowed to drive not cleared to drive not supposed to drive banned from driving disqualified from driving shouldn't be driving medically unfit to drive threatened to drive said she would drive said he would drive drive the kids drive the children drive ana drive ksenia

address it with jane discuss it with jane address this at school discuss this at school raise it with the school tell the school about speak to jane about this bring this up with jane we can take this to mediation if address this at mediation if we can discuss it further at school can address it at school if raise this with her teacher

you have no choice you don't have a choice this is not a request this is not up for discussion i'm telling you, not asking you will agree i need you to agree or agree or i will sign or i'll you must agree

where were you who were you with i need to know where tell me where you must inform me i need a full itinerary i want details of why weren't you answering i need to know what you were doing

push me around push you around pushing me around do a 180 did a 180 does a 180 completely changes their mind says one thing and does another moves the goalposts moved the goalposts can't take you at your word don't take you at your word never take you at your word can't trust what you say can't trust your word won't be held accountable refuses to be accountable never takes responsibility takes no responsibility

told me you children told me kids said you i asked them and they said children mentioned they told me what you i know what you said to them

i'm not talking to you don't contact me stop messaging me i'll only communicate through my solicitor don't call me i'm blocking you stop contacting me

i don't care not my problem deal with it yourself figure it out not interested whatever

not coming this weekend can't see them won't let you i've decided you can't contact is cancelled they're not going you won't be seeing them stopping contact refusing to hand over i'm keeping them they don't want to go i'm not sending them

tell your dad tell your mum ask them to get them to tell pass on the message they can tell you themselves ask the children to i'll have them tell you

deleting the app removing the app blocking you turning off no longer using i'm done with this app uninstalling

changing the schedule rearranging contact i've decided you'll now have them i'm changing the arrangement new arrangement from now on we're going to do it differently

running late be there in stuck in traffic can't make it on time delayed going to be late

let's focus on the children for the kids for the children let's keep this civil i'd like to resolve can we discuss let's work this out i'm happy to talk i want what's best for let's try to be mature about i'm willing to can we find a solution in the best interests of

i agree ok i'll that's fine of course i'll make sure i can do that agreed no problem i'll sort that i'll arrange

they had a great time they enjoyed they're doing well wanted to let you know update on thought you'd want to know sharing information keeping you informed

mediation mediator family counselling co-parenting support cafcass let's get some help with professional support parenting coordinator

you have to pay for my miam you have to pay for her miam you have to pay for his miam you have to pay for my solicitor you have to pay for my barrister you have to pay for her barrister you have to use my solicitor you have to use my barrister you have to use their solicitor you are required to pay legally required to pay you are legally obliged to pay it is your legal obligation that is your legal responsibility the law requires you to by law you must legally you must legally you cannot you have no legal right to you have no legal right you are liable for you must cover the cost of you have to fund the court requires you to cafcass requires you to you must attend miam you have to attend miam you have to get a c100 you need to apply for a c100 you have to apply to court for you are required by law to apply

the judge will make you the judge said you have to the court will force you cafcass will say you have to cafcass says you must cafcass confirmed you have to my solicitor says you have to my solicitor says you must my barrister says you are required the mediator said you must legally advised that you have to i've been told legally you must the court will not allow you to it is not allowed by law

you agreed to you promised to you said you would pay we agreed you would pay you told me you would that was the agreement you committed to you accepted that you confirmed you would you assured me

i'll hurt you i will hurt you'll regret this make you pay you'll be sorry i'll destroy you watch yourself

shit dad shit father shit parent shit mum shit mother bad dad bad father bad mother bad parent terrible dad terrible father terrible mother terrible parent worst dad worst father worst mother worst parent useless dad useless father useless parent you don't care about the kids you don't care about the children you never cared you never cared about them you're not a real father you're not a real dad you don't deserve them you don't deserve to be a parent failed as a father failed as a parent failed as a dad never been there never there for you'll ruin them you're damaging them

just wait you'll see you'll find out mark my words you won't get away with don't push me you don't know what i'm capable of keep it up and see what happens

you're pathetic you're useless you're a terrible parent you're an idiot shut up stop being stupid ridiculous you're delusional you're crazy you're insane mental you're a joke laughable disgraceful

i'll take you to court i'll take this to court i'll apply for a court order i'll get a non-mol i'll have you arrested i'll report you to cafcass i'll make sure the court knows i'll make sure the judge knows i'll make sure cafcass knows my solicitor will contact you my solicitor will be in touch

i'll tell them you i'll say you i'll report that you i could always say it would be a shame if people knew i'll make sure people know i'll tell everyone

taken the dla taking the dla kept the dla keeping the dla dla is hers dla is his dla for herself dla for himself removed the dla credited herself credited himself added dla as a credit kept dla dla credit pip payment taken the pip disability allowance ana's dla ksenia's dla child's dla the kids' dla dla into her account dla into his account

i'm going to court i'm going to my solicitor i've taken legal advice i've spoken to a lawyer i'll apply for i'll go back to court

csa cms child maintenance maintenance payments i'll reduce i'll stop paying i'll go through cms take you to csa i'll report to cms

i'll take the house you'll lose everything i own everything i'll freeze the accounts you'll get nothing in the divorce selling the house without i'm entitled to

removed my expenses deleted my expenses removed from the app removed from splitwise deleted from the app taken off the app unilaterally removed changed the split refused to pay won't contribute stopped contributing won't split removed your claim rejected the expense declined the expense taking herself off took herself off the app no longer using the app removed items from deleted items from cancelled the expenses

never said that that never happened you're imagining things that's not what was agreed i never agreed to there's no record of you made that up that's not what i said you misunderstood you're twisting my words you're paranoid

you're the one who actually you're the abuser i'm the victim here look at what you're doing to me you're harassing me you're the controlling one you're the problem you started this you brought this on yourself

after everything i've done you owe me i gave up everything for because of you you've ruined look at what you've done to this family the children know what you've done karma

you're overreacting stop being dramatic it's not a big deal you're making a mountain out of stop being ridiculous you're too sensitive you're reading too much into typical you here we go again

showed them the read them the court told them about the hearing explained the case to they know about the court showed them your statement told them what cafcass said

told them you don't care explained you left them they know you abandoned i've told them the truth about you they know what kind of parent you are

told them you are told the children you are let them know what you did explained to them that you they deserve to know the truth about you i've had to tell them what you told them about your behaviour

don't have to listen to you don't have to do what ignore what they tell you i've told them they don't need to overriding your decision i've told them a different not your decision countermanded i've already told them

the children told me you the kids told me you she told me you he told me you they told me you told me what you did told me you were told the children to tell you asked the kids to tell you getting them to pass on send a message through children agree with me kids are on my side they know whose fault they agree you are ana came and said ana turned up and said ana arrived and said ksenia came and said ksenia turned up and said ana came home and said why don't you ana asked why you never ana said why don't you buy ana asked why you spend ana said you are torturing she said you refuse child came home asking why she came home asking why you

the children agree with me the kids know what you did told them what you children know about the court showed them your message they've read the they know the truth the children have seen i let them read

you're a narcissist you're mentally you're unstable you're toxic you're abusive you're controlling you're manipulative you're delusional you're paranoid you have npd you're a psychopath you're a sociopath

bad parent terrible parent awful parent useless parent you don't care about you put yourself irresponsible parent unfit parent your parenting is how you parent your attitude to the children

not having them for christmas not having them for easter you can't take them on holiday refusing the holiday blocking the holiday cancelling the holiday you changed the holiday arrangement you moved the holiday i'm not allowing you are not entitled to that's not your week that's not your time

didn't tell me about wasn't informed of found out from school contacted me without why didn't you tell me kept me out of the loop

punched me punched him punched her kicked me kicked him kicked her slapped me slapped him slapped her grabbed me grabbed him grabbed her shoved me shoved him shoved her strangled choked me headbutted spat at me scratched me bit me physically attacked physically assaulted attacked me assaulted me laid hands on me put their hands on me

hit ana hit the children hit the kids hurt ana hurt the children glass hit shards hit it hit her it caught her it caught him struck her struck him struck the child child was hurt ana was hurt ksenia was hurt she was cut he was cut glass caught fragment hit piece hit it actually hit

crime reference crime ref crn incident number police report reported to police called the police police attended officers attended police came statement to police police statement gave a statement arrested cautioned charged with assault restraining order non-molestation order injunction

children saw children witnessed kids saw kids witnessed child saw child witnessed daughter saw son saw in front of the children in front of the kids in front of her children were there kids were present child was there children present during came in and told told her teachers told the teachers told us at school disclosed to school reported to school told her class teacher child reported ana reported told staff told a member of staff spoke to her teacher about came to school and said came in saying told us this morning

blocked my way blocked the door wouldn't let me leave stood over me got in my face cornered me physically blocked wouldn't move prevented me from leaving stopped me from leaving trapped me loomed over towered over me squared up

smashed threw against the wall threw across the room broke my destroyed my smashed my punched the wall kicked the door slammed the door threw things put a hole in the wall damaged my property threw the glass threw a glass threw a plate threw a cup threw something threw an object it smashed it shattered glass everywhere smashed everywhere shattered on the floor

took them to the doctor changed their medication booked an appointment had them vaccinated changed their prescription referred them to dentist appointment without started treatment stopped their medication took them to a&e consented to surgery without

spoke to the school without told the school changed school moved them to removed from applied for a school without spoken to the teacher about told the headteacher parents evening without excluded from made a complaint to the school about you

booked a holiday booked the holiday booked flights taking them abroad taking them overseas i've decided we're going going on holiday without going on holiday without telling travel without consent taking their passport

signed them up for enrolled them in stopped their quit their pulled them from started them in changed their club removed them from the team

baptised without christened without started taking them to enrolled in religious converted them changed their name without